Amid recent discussions, Joke Silva has taken a stand to challenge and disprove common misconceptions surrounding older women and their sexual lives.
During a recent podcast appearance with other prominent figures in Nollywood, Joke addressed various personal and sensitive topics.
Renowned for her work in Nollywood and her marriage to Olu Jacobs, Joke shared her thoughts on societal comments about older women.
She specifically confronted the belief that women, as they age, experience a decrease in sexual libido. Joke recounted encountering an article suggesting that older men are drawn to younger women because of the perception of lower sexual libido in older women. Dismissing this notion as “a load of crap,” Silva emphasized that such generalizations are far from reality.
Last year, Joke publicly revealed that her husband was battling dementia, a condition that has progressively worsened over time. This disclosure marked a significant and emotional moment for her as she grappled with her husband’s declining health.
In a candid discussion with Chude, Silva opened up about the profound impact of her husband’s illness on their marriage. She admitted that dealing with the changes in her husband has been incredibly challenging. Despite his transformation, her love for him remains steadfast. She spoke about reaching a point of acceptance and acknowledging the harsh reality of their situation.
Despite these difficulties, Joke fondly recalled the days when Olu Jacobs was in good health. She praised him for being an “incredible father” to their children and an “amazing husband” to her. His contributions to their family life were highlighted as a testament to his character and the depth of their relationship.
Earlier this year, Silva celebrated her husband’s 81st birthday with a heartfelt prayer and a touching photo shared on social media. In her message, Joke expressed deep gratitude for his life, showering him with prayers and affection. This gesture resonated with Nollywood fans and well-wishers, who joined in to extend their birthday wishes to Olu Jacobs.
