A well-known Nigerian clergyman, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has sparked outrage with his recent statement.
During a recent event, the relationship coach and counselor explained why he believes a man should be married by the age of 24.
He pointed out that in many developed countries, young individuals are already exposed to responsibility at the age of 18, living outside their parents’ homes. He referenced how many teenagers in Silicon Valley have become billionaires and are creating groundbreaking inventions that are transforming the world.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, it is not uncommon for a man to still be living with his parents and running errands at the age of 28.
“I don’t understand why a man should be above 23 or 24 and still unmarried. Even animals have grandchildren at that age, and in developed countries, someone of 18 has already left their parents’ home and is faced with responsibilities.
But in Nigeria, you can be 28 and still dependent on your mother, while she is still sending you messages.
Meanwhile, your peers in Silicon Valley, at the age of 18 or 19, are already billionaires and are creating innovations that have a global impact.”
Many people were furious and unimpressed by the statement, expressing their displeasure on social media.
Reactions:
Elohim Elsha wrote, “This individual always patronizes others with his overweight body. He probably cheats on his wife.”
Julezobi wrote, “This man will provide for his family and extended family with imagination, paying bills with just thoughts. He will take care of his children by listening to sermons like this.”
Tobiloba Amusa wrote, “To those attacking him, it’s evident that the country’s situation has limited your thinking. In developed countries, at the age of 24, you are already employed and living in your own apartment. You are mentally mature. There is nothing wrong with a 24-year-old getting married, unless they haven’t found their soul mate yet. 2pac died at the age of 24; just imagine his level of maturity when he was alive.”
Gtb wrote, “This is how these pastors spread misinformation and mislead the youth. They should focus on preaching love and the gospel.”
I Am Popular Mike wrote, “I have never heard this man preach about the fundamentals of faith, Christ, eternity, or holiness. It’s always about marriage, relationships, and sex. Please don’t pressure people to rush into something they are not ready for.”
Incredible MC wrote, “I agree with the part about leaving parents’ home early. It helps to become responsible and think of ways to succeed. As for marriage, it will happen when the time is right.”
Edim David wrote, “This is so WRONG! Stop putting unnecessary pressure on people. This is why some people end up marrying the wrong person.”
Mayor wrote, “Age doesn’t determine when someone should get married. It’s a personal choice and timeline. Especially in this economy.”
Ella of Troy wrote, “Sometimes I don’t understand this guy and his wife’s preaching. Mostly his wife.”
